1. What is your zodiac sign
I am a Sagittarius, and despite being into the performance and experience of participating in ritual magic and learning about the occult, I have never been into Astrology.
2. What is your favorite color(s)?
My favorite colors are purple and green. As someone who is olive toned, these colors do well on me and green reminds me of the primal desire for nature. Though many people love seeing me in red.
3. What are your favorite foods and drinks? Alcoholic and non-alcoholic.
My favorite foods are Mediterranean-Middle Eastern and Colombian because these are my heritage foods plus Japanese cuisine because I also love sushi. Vegan food is my main diet except for fish and poultry on occasion, so I often have to cook foods from these cuisines at home from scratch with substitutions to satiate my cravings. It turns out I am also a talented vegan and gluten free baker probably due to my sweet tooth and love for chocolate and baked goods.
For alcoholic drinks I love a good old fashioned margarita and prefer tequila for spirits. For non-alcoholic drinks, I can’t get enough of kombucha and fresh pressed organic juices.
4. What are your hobbies?
Different forms of dance like pole dancing, rhythmic gymnastics, and burlesque. Gardening with Mandy and taking hikes with our dog through our pasture. Floral design and floriculture because my wife grows a massive amount of flowers on our land. Watching cult classic movies, reading books, and listening to as much music as I can. Viewing art and learning more about art history. Continuing to master the domestic arts of homemaking and hosting.
5. What is your favorite book?
I am a big non-fiction person and love to learn new things. I would like to get more into fiction and novels than I have been over the years. A novel I really love is Gardens in the Dunes by the prolific Native American author Leslie Marmon Silko. On my summer reading list has been On Earth We’re Briefly Gorgeous by Ocean Vuong. I was not able to read much for pleasure due to being enrolled in a demanding college program the last three years. I am happy to have graduated so I can get back to reading for personal enjoyment and not just academics.
6. Where are your favorite places you have been to and where are places you would love to travel to?
Favorite places I have been to or lived in include San Francisco, Cairo, and Spain.
I have so many places I have yet to go and dream of seeing. Pretty much everywhere in Latin America I have wanted to go see since I went to Venezuela as a child for a gymnastics competition and I am part Lebanese-Colombian. I also have a dream of doing a bicycle tour through Iceland and parts of Europe (which was a trip I had bought tickets for and planned to do on my own many years ago but I ran off and got with Mandy instead!).
7. What is your favorite movie?
I am a big John Waters fan, and Desperate Living plus Serial Mom are some of my favorites. I am also a fan of Wong Kar-Wai and his films Happy Forever and In the Mood for Love. Experimental cult classic films like Daisies, David Lynch films like Inland Empire and anything cutting edge for its time I can endlessly watch. I’m also a documentary fan and love a good recommendation to learn something new.
8. What is your favorite music?
I am into a lot of different genres of music from mainstream pop, to house and electronic, indie rock and alt pop, plus some Jazz and classical too (my wife is a talented pianist who loves Rachmaninoff and Liszt which I get to enjoy hearing live in my home all the time).
9. What is your ideal date?
I love a weekend together where we can fully enjoy an abundance of time, connect, explore and experience an adventure. Tasting wine at a vineyard, sight seeing, lounging on a beach by the ocean, visiting avant-garde art galleries, watching independent cinema at the movie theater, attending the symphony or ballet, seeing a theatre show, going dancing at the hottest night club with the best DJs, or dare I say… even the strip club because I love supporting sex workers.
Enjoying a meal at an upscale restaurant with vegan food options is my preference for dining due to diet restrictions. Staying in a luxury or quirky boutique hotel for a memorable experience is also key. If all of this can be done while internationally traveling, even better.
10. Do you have a mantra or favorite saying you live by?
All we have is time and time is the most valuable thing on Earth. Use it well.
11. How long have you been with Mandy Mitchell?
We have been married for 10 years and together for 12 years total.
12. How did you meet Mandy Mitchell?
We were both active in the adult industry and became online friends through porn Twitter back in 2011 when it was a small, close-knit community. We talked on the phone for a year before one day I decided to go meet my online girlfriend.
I never went back to my apartment in San Francisco until I decided to move my things to commit to being with Mandy in the Pacific Northwest. We definitely were magnetized to each other right away and dove right into a relationship. I have no regrets.
13. What is some of the best advice you have ever received?
Don’t lose sleep over people who don’t lose sleep over you.
14. Who are some of your adult industry influences and icons?
In addition to my wife, Mandy Mitchell, I’d say numerous other prolific female performers and directors for Kink.com such as my friend Princess Donna Dolore. I also am inspired by my friend Little Puck for her shining personality, positivity, and creativity.
15. What are some of your career goals as a Dominatrix?
I hope to travel the world with my clients and open my own private, upscale dungeon and play space one day. I also have a goal of shooting more FemDom content with queer submissives of all genders whether it sells well or not just because I believe in the transformative power of indie queer porn.
16. What is your style of domination?
It’s funny because as a sub I am extremely obedient and well behaved in that headspace. As a Domme, my bratty personality totally takes over. I want what I want when I want it, and I am perfectly comfortable being demanding. I am playful yet can still be authoritarian and strict. I have both a sensual, nurturing domination style, as well as a bratty side ready to make you her toy. I guess you can say I contain multitudes.
17. What are your top 3 favorite kinks as a Domme?
Definitely feminization, bisexual encouragement, and financial domination.
18. What are some of your strengths as a Domme?
Feminization because I love everything related to feminine beauty and femme drag. I love an interesting role play and am quite the actress. Domesticity training since I am a skilled homemaker.
19. What are some of the characteristics of your ideal submissive?
Polite, well educated or informed, kind, generous, able to follow instructions, high aptitude, and an optimistic attitude.
20. What do you feel is the best way your fans can support your work?
My fans can book me for FemDom sessions and online services, send me tips and gifts to let me know they are thinking of me, order custom content, and call me regularly on NiteFlirt.
Read my about me page as a Dominatrix and my Personal Statement to learn even more about me and see if we are a good fit for sessions and/or coaching.